The Verdict

Now that the initial emotion of the situation has passed, I can calmly write that I heard back from the new insurance company regarding the waiver I submitted.  It was declined completely on the grounds that I will not be 28 weeks on January 1st.  As far as the “high risk” and placenta previa, I was informed that their “doctors deal with high risk pregnancies all the time”.  Ugh.  Well, that may be, but “their doctors” are not my doctor.  So, after this month I need to find a new OB.  I did get referrals from friends and will contact that physician, but before I can do that I have to wait until I am given my new insurance membership number, “in the next couple of days”.  I hear that getting into seeing this doctor can be somewhat challenging as her appointment calendar fills up fast.  And with me going overseas at the end of the month, I’m sure it will be easy to get an appointment and my 28-week ultrasound scheduled.

Hopefully I get the call from the referral nurse before Christmas.  I do see my current doctor next week one last time.  Going to have to spill this unfortunate news to her and figure out what all needs to be done to get my file transferred.  Sounds like loads of fun.

Now that the cat is out of the bag…

A little over a week ago I found out my work was changing health insurance carriers on January 1st.  However, despite my knowledge of this change, I was sworn to secrecy as it was not announced to the staff until yesterday.  Regardless, this impending change undoubtedly created a very large headache for me as, with the new carrier, my current OB doctor and hospital will be out-of-network.  Ugh!

The only reason I found out about this change early was because I contacted the broker to learn about international coverage should we need medical attention while in Ireland.  Since we will be overseas when the year changes, the broker had to show me information for both the current and the new plan.  When reading that email I immediately panicked.  Ok, well panicked isn’t quite the right word, but I went into a OMG what can I do to keep my current doctor mode.  I talked to the broker, HR, and my current insurance company.  Immediately anything to do with the current company was eliminated as they don’t offer a continuation plan and in Colorado, pregnancy counts a pre-existing condition (not all states do).

After talking to the broker and HR (who also talked to the broker) I learned that if I was 28 weeks (the beginning of the 3rd trimester) when the plan goes into effect on 1/1/10 the new carrier would pretty much have to let me continue to see my current doctor.  However, on 1/1 I will be 25 weeks.  Knit-picky,  I know.  If I’m also considered to be high-risk, the new carrier won’t want to cause me any additional stress and thus would grant me the continued coverage.  Having been diagnosed with a low-lying placenta, puts me in a category where there is the potential for high-risk, should the placenta not move with the growing uterus.

There is a form the new carrier required me to complete to apply for the Continuity of Care coverage.  This form included a page to be filled out by me and one from my doctor.  This form also had to be faxed in at least 20 days prior to the plan change.  So, it’s also a blessing that I found out about the change when I did, as the form was faxed in yesterday (the day staff was notified), which was 21 days prior to the effective date.  Oy! I dropped the form off at my doctor’s office on Monday and told them I needed it back on Thursday so I could fax it in on Friday.  Thursday I called to check on the stats only to learn that it was not completed and it was my doctor’s off day.  Ugh!  The receptionist promised me that it would be filled out Friday morning, so when I got there that afternoon with the other half of the paperwork they could fax it for me.  I did get a call yesterday afternoon informing me that it was indeed ready to be picked up.  Yay!  Now, my goal was to a) get to the office in Boulder, from Denver, before 5:00 and b) not run out of gas in the process.

Thankfully I made it to the office with about 20 minutes to spare (yay for people not going to work on Fridays and thus not being in my way!) and for having enough gas (although my light was on warning me I was driving on fumes).  I was pleased to see that on the form my doctor played-up the potential of placenta previa and told the new carrier that my pregnancy is “complicated”.  She also mentioned all the additional scans and appointments I will need.  So hopefully, with all that information the Continuity of Care department will grant my request!  I’m supposed to find out before 1/1, and would ideally like to know before my next appointment on the 23rd (so I can get additional information from my doctor on changing physicians should that be necessary).  But, realistically, the big reveal will probably come while I am in Ireland.

Many people are currently praying over this insurance issue, that I do not have to change doctors and hospitals right before the last three months of my pregnancy.  You are welcome to join them.  Also, even though previa would not be an ideal aspect of pregnancy and hopefully will not be a reality for me, perhaps having the scan show the low placenta is a blessing in disguise if it allows me to keep my doctor.  I did come to a peace over this situation last week.  If I have to change, I have to change, I just prefer not to.  But now, everything I can do on my end has been done and all that’s left is to wait.

Over the long weekend…

Wednesday I had my 20 week check-up.  Logan is growing right along schedule and the doctor isn’t concerned at this point about the location of the placenta.  I will go in for another ultrasound at 28 weeks to check on it’s “true location” as the doctor put it, but this also means more pictures. 🙂

For Thanksgiving, this year, we were treated to not one, but two meals.  The first, a midday smorgasbord of delectables at Noah’s brother’s house.  Then, an evening dinner with friends.  Good thing I was already wearing stretchy pants. 😉  Friday, Noah and I braved the crowds to browse some stores for things we didn’t need (and really only purchased items we did).  We did NOT go at 5am like crazy people, we much prefer our sleep to saving a couple extra dollars.  But, by the time we did venture out into the chaos and hit 4 stores I ran out of steam.  I actually ended up snoozing in the car between stops and took a 2 hour nap once we got home.  Saturday was the most productive day of the long weekend – we finally got Logan’s room cleaned out and ready for furniture to move it!  I am so glad this project is done (it only took about 4 months).  Now, Noah just needs to build the crib. 🙂

We hope y’all had a peaceful Thanksgiving break filled with good food and good fellowship!  Time for some R&R before reality sets in once more tomorrow. 🙂

It’s a…

 

Baby MySpace Comments

Today Noah and I went in for our 19-week ultrasound.  And, in-case you’ve missed the giant graphic above, we are having a boy!  Although we were hopeful for a girl, we are very excited to be welcoming Logan into our family!  Logan is developing perfectly and is measuring within a week of his assigned due date (a little ahead, but hey, who’s counting?). 😉  He is also quite the wiggle-worm (must take after me in that regard).  Several times the technician had to wait for him to stop squirming so she could take measurements.  But we learned about Logan’s excessive mobility at our 11 week appointment when the doctor could not find his heartbeat with the doppler.

What’s also exciting, is I started feeling Logan move around this week.  I don’t feel him all the time, usually when I’m relaxed.  But it’s a great feeling!  Noah’s a little jealous, he is looking forward to being able to place a hand on my abdomen and feel the baby kick.

The only “concern” the technician had is that the placenta is close to the cervix still, which puts me at risk for placenta previa.  Basically, the placenta is supposed to move upwards towards the fundus as the uterus grows, but so far it’s still lying low.  If it stays low near the cervix, it would mean I would need to have a cesarean section birth.  There is still time for the placenta to move upwards, so please pray that it does and I do not have this rare condition!  I haven’t had any complications, and like I said, Logan is developing right on schedule. Next week when I see my doctor I am sure we will discuss this more and I imagine I will have more ultrasounds throughout my pregnancy.  At least that means more pictures of our baby. 🙂

And, of course, I have uploaded lots of new pictures to the album for your viewing pleasure.  Also, the poll is still open for guessing Logan’s birthday.  Let me know if you want to pick a date.

Updates

Another big snow storm this weekend.  I wonder if this pattern will continue all season.  I do much prefer the cooler weather as I fit much more nicely in  sweaters than my summer shirts (I think I only have 3 that still fit).

On that note, I have added some belly shots since people seem to request them.  Friday we go in for our 19-week ultrasound, and unless we have a shy baby, we will find out if we’re going to have a Logan or a Carol. 🙂  It’s exciting to finally find out! *Fingers crossed*

16 week update

Today was my 16 week appointment and Noah managed to escape from work, getting to the office just before the doctor entered.  Today we got to hear the heartbeat with the doppler (150s bpm for those who are interested), one of the best sounds in the world.  🙂  Everything is progressing along just fine.  The nurse was a little concerned that I haven’t gained any weight yet, perhaps that’s the excuse I need to delve into the Halloween candy a little early.  😉  Later today I’ll make my ultrasound appointment for next month so we can find out the baby’s sex!   Still hoping for a girl!  The poll is still open — comment your guess if you want your prediction posted!

Paranoia

“A paranoid is someone who knows a little of what’s going on.”
William S. Burroughs (1914 – 1997)

 

All the talk about swine flu and how bad it is to contract if you’re pregnant is making me paranoid.  Noah’s stayed home from work yesterday and today due to a head cold.  I have quizzed him multiple times on his symptoms, cross-referenced them with the CDC website, and made him take his temperature repeatedly.  All signs point to the common cold.  As a precaution, he has taken up sleeping downstairs (this is also due to the fact he didn’t want to get woken up at 6am when I start to get ready for work).  Also finding out last night that a girl I went to school with died from H1N1 (at the age of 28!) did not help.

 

I read this article online earlier today, which helped to reduce my paranoia…some.  But I work at a germ-factory (aka school) and learned today that our staff and students are dropping like flies.  Two staff and one child of a staff-member in my building have/had H1N1.  At least one student in another building has it (one of the three in that class that were sent home yesterday with fevers) and another staff in yet another building also has the virus.  Several other students have been sent home with fevers, I have not heard if they are H1N1 related.

 

My doctor has recommended I get both the regular flu and H1N1 vaccine.  My plan is to get the regular flu shot this weekend and then, when my doctor’s office gets a supply of H1N1 shots in, I’ll get that one too (sometime this month, but might not be until my appointment on the 30th).  All the paranoia did encourage me to call my doctor’s office  today and listen to the recording about flu vaccines — they don’t have H1N1 yet, which is what I expected.  So I’ll continue to wait, pray for health, wash my hands, use lots of antibacterial gel and disinfect my office doorknobs daily (mental note: buy more wipes so I don’t poison myself with CaviCide)…and try not to feed into the paranoia.

Baby update

Yesterday we had our 11 week check-up for the baby.  It was supposed to be a quick appointment, just an abdomen check and hear the heartbeat.  But the doctor couldn’t find the heartbeat with the doppler, which isn’t too uncommon before 12 weeks.  So we got to have another ultrasound.  Everything looks great and we got to see the baby squirm, twist and kick – it was all that movement that made it hard for the doctor to zero in on the heartbeat.  Because of all the squirming, Noah says the baby is taking after me (I have a reputation of being a wiggle worm).  I’ve added a couple new ultrasound pictures to the Bailey Baby album.  In one of the pictures you can clearly make out the baby’s nose.  So what do you think, does it look like mine or Noah’s?  Noah thinks it looks like mine.  😉

Also, the poll is gaining in popularity.  Here are the current standings:

Girl: 7
Boy: 3
Unspecified: 3
Most popular birth date: April 20th

Since I have the calendar secured, be sure to let me know if you want your prediction listed!

Castle Calendar

A while ago my sister bugged me to create a calendar on the site and I finally got around to it.  Yet it wasn’t Gretna that spurred me along this time, but a couple of my friends that have started picking dates for when they think the baby is due.  So if you go to the calendar page and scroll to April you can see the prediction poll.  If you would like yours listed, just leave a comment and I’ll put it up.

NOTE: If you win the only prize you will receive is a boost to your ego, but it’s still fun.  🙂

Cake

So I mentioned in my last post about how the cake Melina made looked good but I didn’t know if it tasted good.  The reason why — sweets make me sick.  Now this is a relatively new development seeing as how I’m PREGNANT!  Yup, you read that correctly.  Bailey Baby will be here around April 15, 2010.

A couple ultrasound pictures (and a super gummy bear) can be found here.

1st trimester pregnancy realizations:

  • A bowl of Cheerios in the morning makes all the difference in the world
  • I LOVE fruit
  • It’s going to take a long time to organize the baby’s room
  • I wish there was a bagel shop closer to my school
  • Everyday should have a mandatory nap time